A sloppy kisser too can kiss well - Do you kiss as sloppily and clumsily as this couple? Don't lose the magic moment for lack of know-how. Here's a step by step guide
One may think the art of the perfect kiss is mastered by musicians, artists, Spaniards and some odd Frenchmen - this is quite the farce. For those who think their talent is inborn and their lip-lock deserves a Tony, try putting it to a poll. Not everyone is a natural and while some may have a little more puckering-confidence than the others, it never hurts to learn a little technique. We all remember those soft, sensual kisses and have jarring memories of awkward slurp attacks with unwarranted groping. Just knowing that you won't be rejected isn't enough. Getting it just right has more to do with timing than one could imagine. Tragically, a sloppy embrace is a crime no single gender is guilty of alone.
So here's a guide on landing an ace smooch that'll have you invited for seconds.
The act
Let us get straight to the point then. Once you are sure you both are ready to plunge in full-throttle, tilt your head to a side, part your lips slightly and pucker up to your partner.
Use your hands to position their face towards you and while you caress their face or play with their hair, gently touch their upper lip with the tip of your tongue. Keep saliva in check, while too little will make things dry, too much will have you slobber. Take short breaks in between to swallow and breathe and each time you re-unite, take things a bit further. Let your tongue savour their lip before going in and exploring their mouth. Don't confuse matters with too many direction and pose changes. Steady your breathing, hold them in an ideal position and tilt, and let your tongue follow the outlines of their teeth. If things are particularly frisky, you can play catch with your tongue, while they probe your mouth. Try and get into the rhythm that's comfortable to both and let passion and impulse do the rest.
Absolutely do not:
Much before any other part of your anatomy ousts your intentions, let your eyes lead the way. Hold your partners gaze for a couple of seconds to establish an intimate bond. During the kiss, while most naturally prefer to keep their eyes shut, keeping them open isn't against the rules. However, post the kiss, make sure you retain eye contact to drive home the sincerity of your actions.
Learn to relax and be confident of your actions. To keep a tab on what your body parts are doing while you're busy drifting into the end zone, can be quite a challenge.
While the basics remain the same, the fun is in the variations. Try tilting your head gently from side to side once things have taken motion. Use your hands to touch their face, neck, arms and waist while you keep them busy. Start with the lips but bring in the tongue only once things really start heating up. The idea is to savour and taste before devouring, so go slow. Also try alternating between coy and lusty kisses by pulling back. This tease and the variety will keep things interesting. ( indiatimes.com )
Blog : Popular Styles | A sloppy kisser too can kiss well
One may think the art of the perfect kiss is mastered by musicians, artists, Spaniards and some odd Frenchmen - this is quite the farce. For those who think their talent is inborn and their lip-lock deserves a Tony, try putting it to a poll. Not everyone is a natural and while some may have a little more puckering-confidence than the others, it never hurts to learn a little technique. We all remember those soft, sensual kisses and have jarring memories of awkward slurp attacks with unwarranted groping. Just knowing that you won't be rejected isn't enough. Getting it just right has more to do with timing than one could imagine. Tragically, a sloppy embrace is a crime no single gender is guilty of alone.
So here's a guide on landing an ace smooch that'll have you invited for seconds.
The act
Let us get straight to the point then. Once you are sure you both are ready to plunge in full-throttle, tilt your head to a side, part your lips slightly and pucker up to your partner.
Use your hands to position their face towards you and while you caress their face or play with their hair, gently touch their upper lip with the tip of your tongue. Keep saliva in check, while too little will make things dry, too much will have you slobber. Take short breaks in between to swallow and breathe and each time you re-unite, take things a bit further. Let your tongue savour their lip before going in and exploring their mouth. Don't confuse matters with too many direction and pose changes. Steady your breathing, hold them in an ideal position and tilt, and let your tongue follow the outlines of their teeth. If things are particularly frisky, you can play catch with your tongue, while they probe your mouth. Try and get into the rhythm that's comfortable to both and let passion and impulse do the rest.
Absolutely do not:
- Be aggressive at any point in time or force them into a position they aren't comfortable with.
- Keep your mouth open too wide. If both their lips can fit between yours, you're doing it wrong.
- Change the direction of your head every few seconds. Unless you are in the throes of passion, this is hugely distracting.
- Pucker like a guppy fish, going in and out as if you were reaching out for air. Keep your movements steady, slow and in control.
- Learn to read your partner's reaction and take a step back if they need you to.
- You might have moved mountains to grab someone's attention, and it'll be a pity if poor hygiene is why you get kicked out of the VIP booth. Get your basics right.
- There is no excuse for chapped lips. Fruity lip balms for women and simple petroleum jelly for men work wonders for a supple look. Whether you suffer from bad breath or not, a mint never hurt anyone. If your partner can tell what you had for your last meal, you have lost the plot.
- An embrace at such close counters require more than your usual dose of physical hygiene. Don't reek of the deodorant you doused. The best way to ensure this is to make sure you refreshed your deodorant at least 30 minutes prior.
Much before any other part of your anatomy ousts your intentions, let your eyes lead the way. Hold your partners gaze for a couple of seconds to establish an intimate bond. During the kiss, while most naturally prefer to keep their eyes shut, keeping them open isn't against the rules. However, post the kiss, make sure you retain eye contact to drive home the sincerity of your actions.
Learn to relax and be confident of your actions. To keep a tab on what your body parts are doing while you're busy drifting into the end zone, can be quite a challenge.
While the basics remain the same, the fun is in the variations. Try tilting your head gently from side to side once things have taken motion. Use your hands to touch their face, neck, arms and waist while you keep them busy. Start with the lips but bring in the tongue only once things really start heating up. The idea is to savour and taste before devouring, so go slow. Also try alternating between coy and lusty kisses by pulling back. This tease and the variety will keep things interesting. ( indiatimes.com )
Blog : Popular Styles | A sloppy kisser too can kiss well
